Okay here is why i nit picked my husband?

he's a wonderful man but he is a slob. And it turns me off and my first love honestly he could do no wrong...which mind boggles me. He is a great father to my daughter, i can tell him anything, but i think telling him that i am still in love with an ex would break him. He works and does everything he can for the family. but he makes jokes that are not funny, slobbers when he kisses me, when i first met him he wasn't taking a bath or brushing his teeth and now he does it in spurts. I just can't physically want to touch him when he stinks in someway that is such a turn off. He doesn't pick up after himself and we both work so i end up doing work then cleaning the house then i have no time to spend with him. He was my best friend in college and we have been married for a year i love him but i know he loves me more and I could do no wrong almost and that is hard to deal with when i have those nit picky things. in mind.